How Do You Know If You’ve Found Your Soulmate? The Answers Are Surprising
If You Found Your Soulmate, How Would You Know?
One of the most useful ways to prepare for and know if you found your soulmate is to listen to and read the stories of many happy couples that have been there before you. If you know me, you’ve heard or read my personal story already.
However, it might not be enough to hear just one successful soulmate attraction story. If you’re seeking a soulmate and you want to tap into what really works then it’s important to look at many examples, especially from long-time happy couples.
So I popped into Google the question, “How do you know if you’ve found the one?” and I found this forum on Quora with a lot of insightful responses. Here I’ll break down a few of the pertinent highlights that specifically relate to deliberate attraction.
Your soulmate can be more than just one.
Surprisingly many encouraged the original poster by saying they believe we have many soulmates, some romantic and some not. And that you could be happy with a variety of individuals, it merely depends on what you’re seeking at any given time.
Therefore, no worries if you’re afraid you missed the boat. If you’re open to love, a worthy partner is sure to find you.
You’ve found your soulmate when it feels natural and comfortable.
Much more than only physical attraction, many responses from long-time couples reported that they knew they found their soulmate because it felt secure and they experienced a high level of comfort being with that person. Trusting each other entirely came up repeatedly, too.
Additionally, many responders added that they have extreme compatibility with their partner, and though things aren’t always perfect, they can get through the few bumps in the road that do come along reasonably smoothly.
If you’re on a similar journey together, you found your soulmate.
A large part of feeling secure and comfortable was due to shared values and goals in life, according to many responders. Indeed, being very clear about who you are and what you want is a crucial first step to deliberately attracting a soulmate.
Your journey becomes much smoother and so much more exciting when you’re motivated by the same values and, for the most part, want the same out of life.
Ordinary life becomes extraordinary when you’ve found your soulmate.
It’s not about passionate fireworks, extravagant dates, or thrilling travels. Buttering toast in the morning, kicking back while watching Netflix, and regular daily life becomes so much more enjoyable when you’re with your soulmate, said some long-time couples.
The relationship no longer is just about thrills and excitement, partly because it’s a joy to simply make the other person happy. Many responders reported that they knew they found the one when they felt like the relationship was no longer only about their needs, but instead they found great pleasure in being a part of their partner’s happiness.
What can get better than that? Wait, there’s more.
Soulmate love isn’t a feeling; it’s a choice.
There were an overwhelming amount of responses that said that loving their soulmate was a conscious decision. It doesn’t get more deliberate than that. Soulmate love is a verb defined by the daily acts of love you bestow on your partner.
It was put beautifully by this user:
“The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found…Love is, therefore, a decision. Not just a feeling,” said Quora user, Shitali.
I couldn’t have said it better myself.
So on that note, may these treasures of wisdom from people who have been with their soulmate for many years be a source of inspiration for you.
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